Back when we were helping our toddlers learn to walk, we learned that letting go wasn’t about stepping away — it was about being close enough for them to know we were there. Parenting teens isn’t so different.
One of the trickiest parts of parenting an older teen is figuring out how to stay emotionally close when they’re pulling away to become their own person….
With the right blend of space and support, your daughter can come out of this summer not just recharged, but ready to take on her next year with more confidence, self-awareness, and maybe even a deeper appreciation for the quiet presence you’ve offered all along.
Even small, everyday moments of connection — a quick chat in the car, making a snack together, walking the dog — are meaningful. Studies continue to show that parent-child warmth remains a protective factor against mood challenges, even as independence grows.
Research has begun to underscore the importance of shifting from a narrow focus on distress reduction to actively promoting positive psychological qualities and resources. Expanding the definition of mental health to include well-being allows for a more comprehensive and effective approach to supporting adolescents.
How to Manage Group Project Anxiety: Practical Tips for Teamwork Challenges Group projects can be a mixed bag – sometimes they lead to productive teamwork, but other times, they can
Encouraging teens to set and achieve their own goals not only prepares them for success in school but also equips them with essential life skills. By supporting teens in this journey, parents can help foster independence, self-confidence, and resilience—qualities that will serve them well throughout their lives.
Part of preparing teens for a successful school year is encouraging them to take ownership of their responsibilities. Whether it’s managing their homework or organizing their schedule, independence fosters a sense of accomplishment and prepares them for future challenges.
When we understand how our actions impact both their overall self-worth and their confidence in specific areas, we can tailor our support to help our teens grow into confident, capable individuals who feel good about themselves across all aspects of life.
Can we maybe cut the kids some slack instead? Can we give them the love, support, and encouragement they need?
Parenting isn’t easy, but we do need to lead the way.